Premature ejaculation is an occurrence when a guy releases his semen quickly without much stimulation. Think of it as the guy getting ready to have sex or starting to have sex and in just a matter of seconds or minutes ejaculates right away. While it doesn’t seem to be a big deal for some guys especially those that are married or in a happy relationship, it can be a deal breaker for others. It can be a bit humiliating when you’re getting ready to get down with a hot girl and you bust your load right away. The girl can see that as a turn off so chances are you’re not getting a second chance the next time. The good thing though is that there are ways to deal with premature ejaculation.
1. Don’t get too excited and think of something else
Usually when it is your first time or you’re too excited to get inside a woman, then chances are you will prematurely ejaculate. The thing to do is not get too excited as it can help speed up the process. Remember those jokes about guys getting too excited when having sex and they think of things that get their minds off of it. They think of things like dead kittens or grandmothers which is weird but it can work. The downside to this is that you can lose your erection but that’s easier to handle than prematurely ejaculating.
2. Go slowly
One thing you can do is just do some foreplay. Straight penetration can make you premature ejaculate but if you start with some kissing and touching then you’re good from the start. If she tries to hold and stroke your dick and you feel like ejaculating, then just take her hand and guide it somewhere else.
3. Ejaculate first
When you know that you are getting laid and if you’re afraid that you’ll go out prematurely then it is best to masturbate first. When you masturbate prior to the sexual intercourse, that means you came already. The benefit to that is the second time you ejaculate can take longer than the first time so there’s no risk for going out prematurely.
4. Change and use a position for you
There are positions where a guy can cum fast and some where he can cum slow. Like guys have the tendency to cum fast when they’re lying down and they tend to cum slower when they are standing up. If you feel that the position you are doing is making you cum faster, then just pause for a moment and change the position to relieve the friction.
5. Use a condom
Using a condom isn’t for everyone but it can be effective for premature ejaculation. The thickness of the condom decreases the friction so that makes it lesser for you to cum faster. The other good thing is that you get to practice safe sex in the process.